Welcome to the memorial page for

Jerome E. DiStefano

July 26, 1940 ~ November 14, 2017 (age 77)

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Jerome Edward DiStefano of Winthrop, died peacefully at home on Tuesday, November 14, 2017.

Born in Boston, he was one of four children born to the late Joseph and Virginia DiStefano. He was a graduate of Winthrop High School, Class of 1958. Jerry enlisted in the Air Force shortly thereafter, where he specialized in engineering and electronics. He spent many years in field service positions until his retirement in 2001.

Jerry loved growing up in Winthrop and had many fond memories of the friendships he forged during his years by the sea wall, and with his siblings, Ann, Mary, and Bob. In high school, he was active in both athletics and theater. After school, his time in the service, and some European travel, he met his wife, Donna. They settled in Townsend, MA in 1980 and spent three happy decades there with their three children Lisa, Jeremy, and Joseph. During these years, Jerry could be found working on projects outdoors, taking his kids to Little League games, and explaining to anyone who would listen why he “had a feeling” about the Red Sox or Patriots this season. Jerry loved to make people laugh, often using his humor and self-deprecating style to spice up any mundane moment. Later in life, Jerry taught himself to paint, and in typical fashion, became completely consumed. When Jerry and Donna moved back to Winthrop in 2011, his oil paintings were the perfect way to connect back to the fond memories he had growing up in Winthrop, retelling stories through the canvas. The only thing that he was more passionate about than painting was his family and spending time with his five grandchildren. He was “Nano” to: Hannah, William, Ryan, Nina, and Will.

In addition to his wife Donna and their three children and spouses, Lisa and Anthony Depew of Ashburn VA, Jeremy DiStefano of Hamilton, MA, and Joseph DiStefano of Boston, MA, he leaves behind three siblings and their spouses, Ann and Frank Ferrara of Winthrop, Mary DeVito and the late Robert DeVito of Canoga Park, CA, and Robert and Barbara DiStefano of Bonita Springs, FL, many nieces, nephews, cousins, and, of course, his five grandchildren that he loved so dearly.

Family and friends are cordially invited to attend the visitation from the funeral home on Saturday, November 18, 2017 from 9:00 to 11:00 AM followed by a funeral mass in the Holy Rosary Church, 1015 Shirley St. in Winthrop. Committal will be private.

Memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research and American Legion Post #146, 92 Johnson Ave, Winthrop, MA 02152 c/o Richard Honan Care Packages.

Charitable donations may be made to:

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
501 St. Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105
Tel: 1-800-805-5856

 Service Information

November 18, 2017

9:00 AM to 11:00 AM
Ernest P. Caggiano & Son Funeral Home
147 Winthrop Street
Winthrop, MA 02152

Mass of Christian Burial
November 18, 2017

11:30 AM
Holy Rosary Church
993 Shirley St.
Winthrop, Massachusetts 02152

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