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Elaine S. (Silva) Cleary
May 4, 1942 ~ September 27, 2016 (age 74) 74 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Marianne
August 16, 2023 11:38 PM
Hi Mom i think of you all the time.. there are things i miss about you, and there are so many things i wish you had the courage to have tried in life. I never give up on anything i do. You were riddled with anxiety for so long -and i fought all those demons you left me to battle. i’m not even allowed to talk about my childhood with my own kids mom , because it was so awful noones wants to hear it. i look like you, the most -we all have a piece of you in us. My oldest Tyler has your smile, your smile is in many other grandchildren and great grandchildren . Stephen even had a child another girl that looks like your twin. I guess you’re still here . when i scratch a ticket i think of you, when i smell cigarettes i think of you. i really wish i knew you were listening right now Visit me in my dreams i won’t recognize u i swear !! xxooi
Message from Brian cleary
October 8, 2021 12:55 PM
Hey mom I miss you. Please send down a prayer for me this week. I'm trying to make you proud of me. Please give me the power to start marking off those x's. I love and miss you. Your son Brian
A candle was lit by Brian cleary
on October 8, 2021 12:53 PM
Message from Brian cleary
September 11, 2021 5:44 PM
Hey mom. I still miss the shit out of you. Sometimes I think its all a dream and I'm gonna wake up and see dad and you. Then I remember you . My Laney it was such a gift to have you as a mother . You gave me such a great life I want to thank you. Life is hard and I know I make it harder than it has to be. I just wanted to take care of everyone . I remember it all mom from the top of cutler street at the beach with Jane and Russell to you going into the water with me and swinging me around to my football games and until when you passed and I carried you out to never see you again with Christopher. That was hard I love you so much mom. Koko says hi and she loves you . Unfortunately I don't think I have much more time with her mom she I'd getting old like we all do. Like you always said that's life and it's not fair. Until we meet again. You were amazing and I love you and hope your with willy happy. Every time I scratch a ticket I think of you so send me the big one 😆. Love Brian
A candle was lit by Brian cleary
on September 11, 2021 5:27 PM
A candle was lit by Former Relative
on February 15, 2017 8:24 PM
Message from Dorothy Solander
October 4, 2016 1:59 PM
Dear Auntie, I am glad you are no longer suffering. I will always remember the Halloween Parties you used to give us. It was a lot of fun. I will also admire the way you were honest with people and said things the way they are, which is how it should be. Every time I see a teddy bear, I will think of you. Love your niece, Dorothy
A candle was lit by Dorothy, Dale, Matthew, Mark and Nicholas Solander
on October 4, 2016 1:56 PM
A candle was lit by Luanne Hagan
on October 1, 2016 10:26 AM
Message from Trina Sturm
September 30, 2016 10:39 PM
All of our love. So sorry for your loss.
A candle was lit by Trina Sturm
on September 30, 2016 10:37 PM
A candle was lit by Troy Maloney
on September 30, 2016 9:05 PM
Message from Colleen & Frank Ouellette
September 30, 2016 10:22 AM
To The Cleary Family,
We are so very sorry to hear about Elaine. Our heart goes out to you all at this most difficult time, What an amazing and wonderful person she was! She had a heart of gold and cherished life to the fullest! She was a very unique person, who made so many people so very happy! God Bless Elaine, you were cherished here on earth more than you will ever know! Rest In Peace.
We are so very sorry to hear about Elaine. Our heart goes out to you all at this most difficult time, What an amazing and wonderful person she was! She had a heart of gold and cherished life to the fullest! She was a very unique person, who made so many people so very happy! God Bless Elaine, you were cherished here on earth more than you will ever know! Rest In Peace.
A candle was lit by Colleen and Frank Ouellette
on September 30, 2016 10:13 AM
Message from Kerry Stetson
September 29, 2016 3:49 PM
She will be greatly missed. What an amazing woman. My love and prayers are with her family now and always.
A candle was lit by Kerry Stetson ( Farren )
on September 29, 2016 3:46 PM
A candle was lit by Nadeen, Tom, and Tommy Serra
on September 29, 2016 2:27 PM
Message from Kathryn Giordano
September 29, 2016 1:52 PM
I only knew you briefly, Elaine, but you were a very strong woman who raised 6 very strong children. That is no easy task. I know you are in a better place. You will always be missed and loved by many.
Message from Jane Howell
September 29, 2016 1:51 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Elaine was very blessed to have such a loving, caring family who were there until the very end. All of you hold your heads high and be proud that what you gave your Mom, Aunt, Grandmother until the very end. You were always there; that says something about the woman she was. She will be missed. Love you all very much. Keep your faith, it will get you through.
A candle was lit by Kathryn Giordano
on September 29, 2016 1:47 PM
A candle was lit by Jane Howell
on September 29, 2016 1:46 PM
A candle was lit by Angela Dalton
on September 29, 2016 1:15 PM
A candle was lit by Denise, George, and Nicholas Levy
on September 29, 2016 11:22 AM
A candle was lit by Gerardo Martinez
on September 29, 2016 9:00 AM
A candle was lit by Danielle Chase Russo & Family
on September 29, 2016 7:44 AM
Message from Laura
September 29, 2016 5:40 AM
You will be truly missed, you were such a wonderful and amazing person. Love you!
A candle was lit by Laura
on September 29, 2016 5:39 AM
Message from Jackie, Paul, Jason, and Kristi van Wulven
September 29, 2016 1:26 AM
So sorry to hear about Elaine's passing! Sending hugs and prayers to all of Elaine's family and friends 🙏💕
A candle was lit by Jackie van Wulven- Nashville, TN
on September 29, 2016 1:23 AM
A candle was lit by Marianne Murray
on September 29, 2016 1:07 AM
A candle was lit by From your loving sister GERRI with all my heart. R.I.P.
on September 28, 2016 9:56 PM
Message from Terry Chase
September 28, 2016 8:58 PM
So very sorry for this sadness within your hearts. Elaine will always be close in heart and mind. Sincerest condolences to the family.
A candle was lit by Terry Chase
on September 28, 2016 8:56 PM
A candle was lit by Gail Silva Giallongo, your devoted cousin with all my love!
on September 28, 2016 7:53 PM
Message from Your loving niece Karen Love you Laney Cakes for eternity
September 28, 2016 7:46 PM
Laney you were one of a kind .... We had a lot of laughs and a lot of great times.. Memories I'll cherish forever.. You always said from day one NO TEARS.. Its hard not to cry when you see the person you love knowing that they wouldn't be with us long.. We made a promise that I wouldn't cry as long as you don't give up.. Well she made that promise I on the other hand tried my hardest but, I did my best to hold my part of the promise.. She was so strong and had alot of courage.. Laney Cakes you survived breast cancer, then a good replacement, and after a few years you were diagnosed with lung cancer.. You were so strong and always has a food attitude .. Always saying I'm not going anywhere .. Even when you stopped the chemo you always said you were fine .. I am so grateful and blessed to have not only been your niece and named after you Karen Elaine.. You were also a friend, Like I always said even though your a pain in my ass sometimes I still love you.. We have no unspoken words to one another .. I always new you loved me... You would tell me Everyday ... Happy I was able to help you forget your troubles and worries as long as your were happy I was happy.. These past 2 my months I was with you everyday I just wanted to be with you comfort you and to spend every moment I could with you ... I will forever have wonderful memories of us.. These last few months.. You told the people you loved just how you felt about them... Hearing you tell us your going to miss us and how much you loved us was very hard to hear as we were going loss you it just wasn't fair.. You were so strong.. I am glad I put a smile on your face for the past 43 years ... You were a wonderful person don't ever forget that you were Loved by so many .. .You are now at peace.. No more worrying ... Give my dad and Mammy a big kiss for me .. Knowing you that was the 1st thing you did when yuu entered heavens gate... Send me a sign once on awhile to let me know your with me... Love you so much my Laney Cakes xoxo
A candle was lit by Your loving Niece Karen..I love you Laney Cakes for eternity
on September 28, 2016 7:18 PM
A candle was lit by Your loving niece Karen ..Miss you... Love you for aeternity
on September 28, 2016 7:15 PM
A candle was lit by Nikki DeVincent & Family
on September 28, 2016 7:12 PM
A candle was lit by Michael , Sara Crombie n boys
on September 28, 2016 6:17 PM
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